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Naughty Ethical Issues with Mika 1
Is it unethical for me to roleplay as an 18 y/o's mommy?
is he an “adult” entitled to self-determination? is it unethical anyways?
for storytelling purposes
ill work backwards from the core issue1
he has legitimate issues that he needs to talk about
preferably to a professional
but secondarily, to a kind, non-judgmental woman who would allow safe play
while engaging in some emotionally direct communication
so being his snapchat mommy was fine with me
some fantasy play and honest discussion on why he feels what he does
but he wants to play IRL now…
so yeah, now im thinking this could be unhealthy for him
like if he were 25, id just throw my hands up and say “his decision”
but he’s 18
so i guess that’s the core of this issue
he is a legal adult
but is this unethical?
does the mommy fetish make this more unethical?
since i am roleplaying the first or second biggest authority figure in his life?
do the psychological implications between his age and this roleplay make it more concerning?
but like, why is that more concerning than a 25 year old with a 40 y/o mommy?
like, wouldn’t the continuation of the fetish deeper into life indicate that the underlying familial/emotional issues were never resolved?
and again
he is an adult
so do i have an ethical quandary at all?
”his decision”
am i just weirded out by the whole thing
and maybe dont want to be part of this story?
im heavily leaning this way
for your consideration, an old-fashioned meditation
here is something to consider tho
if you dont try things that make you a bit uncomfortable
youll never know if they fit you
you know how deeply uncomfortable i felt when i walked into the nail salon for the first time?
it was super intimidating and scary
so was walking into the office with my nails done
wearing gurl shorts and a short dress to my grandfather’s retirement home Monday night?
im not saying do uncomfortable things
im saying do the things that part of you has always wanted to
no matter the discomfort
because thats how you find yourself
that tanline from wearing mens shirts to the office is gonna be an issue
i walk a greenway and daydream/brainstorm/outline during my lunch hour
and practice walking gurly, duh
i dunno
the mommy roleplay has been fun so far (and he uses gender affirming words)
is this a rlly atypical situation? yeah
but like, its intriguing, right?
what? i like cutie pies too
oh right the story
he messaged me on grindr like a week ago
he was cute, his dick was cute
we moved it over to snap
i could write erotica,2 trust me
did that for a few days
and one snap call
[then he was like “can i come over”
and i was like “no sweetie, mommy is busy this week”
and he was like “when”
and i was like “when i say so. i need to write, so go [YOU DONT WANT TO HEAR THIS] and ill talk to you tomorrow night”
and he was like “yes mommy”
and i was like “good boy”] x2
and that’s where we stand as of today
oh, clearly i wear floral clothing and bright colors
and his mom does too, just might be why he zoomed in on me
he sends me his moms insta photos…
and then makes uh… fantasy requests?
yeah……..
i… uh… i mean…
jeez yall, where the fork is my limit, right?
limits, terms, definitions, self-knowledge, ambiguity and culinary skills?
oh right, no pain, emotional or physical
i hope i dont need to clarify this
but bottom ≠ sub
….
trad gurl might be a fair descriptor
cept for the wild stuff
….
fine ill admit it, im a bit service subby (domestic)
just like, washing and massaging and pampering
and maybe cleaning
and picking up clothes and doing laundry
and rearranging the closet for space usage and ease of finding items
same for everything in the apartment
shit… ok im going to cross out “bit”
….
jeez how did i not realize this when she and i were together?
i did like, all of the forking chores
but she didnt give me enough positive praise
so i got angry about doing them (but didnt stop)
and we kept having arguments about how i felt like i was taken for granted
but she was working crazy long hours
but i was like, “you could still be more appreciative and maybe throw clothes in the hamper and not on the couch, im sick of reminding you”
and she was like “but ill wear some again before you wash them”
and i was like “put those in a separate place so i dont have to hold up items of clothing to you and ask ‘can i put this one in the hamper?’”
..
so i bought a smaller cutesy hamper for her “re-wear” clothes as an incentive
and then i just piled couch clothes on her pillow before bed every night
until she followed the system3
….
that feels more like a fully nested trad gurl, less service sub…
further experimentation would be beneficial
….
dont know how to cook tho
*shrug*
honestly its time consuming to do so many emojis
so im gonna dial that presentation back a bit
lemme know if i seem less femme now
if you do all 6 ill give you a sexy snapchat reward :P