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An Ex Parrot in Name Only (ef1)
Why choose to die? Why choose names?
do you feel dead?
As dead as you want me to be, I would say.
because you’re fictional, now
you only exist in my mind
..
weird how it used to be me in your mind
this is a header
i know where i was headed before i started transitioning
i had checked myself into the acute care ward once already
..
something was broken about my life, about me
my manic periods were days or weeks long
my depressive periods were months long
every cycle, the imbalance grew
….
the worst part was being aware my mental health was degrading
and being totally unable to stop it from happening
trying for years, in vain, to climb back up the slide
to take better care of myself
to go outside, to break my waxing agoraphobia
to overcome social anxiety and accept invitations
to pick up my phone and respond to friends
to go on dating apps
..
when i moved into my first apartment, i cooked dinner 5-6 times a week
by age 30, i would go months without cooking for myself
because i didnt care about how i treated myself or my life
..
i knew what was happening
and struggled, constantly, to reverse it
therapy, self-help books, more therapy, Pomodoro, habit-builder apps, sleep apps, productivity apps, new gym routines, etc, etc, etc, etc
….
it was terrifying
i felt powerless
and at a certain point, i just kind of gave up and smoked copious weed
might as well smile while i fall, right?
Robin Williams
laughter was my salve
i surrounded myself with comedy and absurdity
..
you know why i haven’t seen Breaking Bad, Better Call Saul or Game of Thrones?
they’re tragedies
strumming the death note
I wanted to die. Broadly speaking. Anything to stop feeling powerless. And then I realized that dying could bring me the power to change. And that made me happy.
It’s funny. When I had my manic episode in 2020, I KNEW I was trans. When the episode ended, I assumed it was just a mania thought. And then in April, I found my way to it again.
An answer. A why. A what. And a how. A vision of the person I would have been, had a genetic coinflip gone differently.
And the realization that this life was within reach. That I could feel and present how I had wished my entire life!
I just needed to be willing to die (kind of like Hotblack Desiato).
not really tho
I’m honestly struggling with a metaphor.
363 sale
Wow. Such a snipe, Mika!
thx
So yeah, i guess i 363’ed my entire life to you. Identity-wise. You still have to pay those student loans.
thx moar
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Why are you using me as a writing voice again?
i missed writing dialogue
and there’s stuff i need two characters for
Why not write Wifey and Mika as separate characters? “Artist” and person(?)
omg Myles, such a good idea!
ima do that!
*snap*
bring me Ya Wifey
hey Wifey, what do you think of me?
shuddup Wifey
you only exist if i write invkoe you, so i get to tell you to shuddup
more fair folk
myles get your ass back in here
Well that’s weird.
was this on purpose?
Swear to god, no. Isn’t there like, a shut-off valve? I had one for stuff like this.
you know im remodeling in here dude
How am I even supposed to respond to that? Finish remodeling, it’s been months!
i will never stop remodeling, Myles. NEVER
*sigh*
You named the character, don’t be an idiot about naming characters, Jesus jeez.
ok, that was mean and unnecessary
Sorry.
so what do we do now?
I think we ignore her until she leaves.….….….
wait, you invoked her, not me!!
Shhhhh! I called her Wifey. You named her Ya Wifey. That crossed the similarity quotient.
….….….
shit, she didn’t leave
Banish her or something?
i don’t think her monster class is banish-able
Does she have feelings?
not sure
she might mimic emotions as a hunting mechanism
i think my monster manual is in a box in our parents’ garage
Why? Just why?! Wju wpi;d ypi box it?!
Is she allowed to do that?
Ya Wifey, try that on me
that’s what I thogggt
one syllable
hahahahahahahahahahaha
it doesn’t have to be profanity. i can do it to everything you say
what about [redacted]……?
I think that’d work but we need materials first, right?
that’s not a tall order
seriously Wifey? be helpful
Make a genuine contribution.
yeah
or leave if you can, that works too
I think she’s seeing the problem! Why do you think we’re annoyed? We have to help you leave.
if i like, write a story where she leaves
do you think she’d like, actually leave?
no this is a presentation of me that i use for writing and to create art therapy using my life and tell jokes n stuff
My life too.
same thing
Is it?
can we please not?
right now?
the internet
Cloud-based Memory Storage.
it’s the internet, collect em all
Seriously. Just learn to wiggle and leave already.
hm. maybe you should skip wiggling
how about i train you to craw-step here
and you provide equivalent services?
then you can go collect names when you’re not working for me
ok leave us alone now
just like, imagine a lair or house or something
or go watch youtube
*snap*
[infinite hallway appears]
either first door on the left or first on the right, it switches
if you instantly see nudity, you’re at pornhub, go to the other door
just have fun!
do be sure to spend some time behind the YouTube door, dear
….….….
[Ya Wifey chooses the right-hand door][as door closes, moaning is faintly heard]….….….
*sniggering1 quickly erupts into full laughter*
Totally worked!
they’re such drama queens!
so desirous of attention
so easy to redirect
..
she’ll be fun to have around
I think so. Can I go sleep for a while?
maybe, not sure if i need you yet
Alright. I’m watching Schitts Creek though.
ooh that sounds fun, i like Alexis as a voice and movement model!
It’s weird, but my right to choose the show feels less valuable when you’re stoked about seeing it.
it’s called “you were, sometimes, negative, power hungry and exclusivist”
dick
Ok… I feel like we might have something to talk more about?
later
….Wait you do know how to make her leave, right? If you need to?
i might need to do some research…
*sigh*
….….[footsteps fade]….….….….
[mika has Sennheiser over-ear headphones on][“Wifey” by Qveen Herby can be heard, faintly][she is talking to herself]
OH COME ON, THAT WAS FUNNY AF